Tiwa Savage Discusses Her Journey Through Motherhood

Nigerian singer Tiwa Savage has openly discussed the emotional and professional effects of motherhood on her life, sharing personal experiences that she seldom reveals.

In a conversation with Korty EO, the 45-year-old artist reflected on her postpartum journey, acknowledging that becoming a mother was not as easy or joyous as many might think. Tiwa expressed that she initially hoped for a daughter and felt emotional distress upon learning she had given birth to a son.

“Honestly, I didn’t bond with my son for the first year or two. I always wanted a girl. They told me it was a boy, and I started crying. So, when he came he was always crying and my body didn’t snap back. I looked horrible. I was supposed to do a campaign with Pepsi at the time and they turned me away. And I just thought this boy has destroyed me. But now, he is my best friend,” she stated.

In addition to the emotional challenges, Tiwa mentioned that motherhood impacted her career, as her physical changes led to missed opportunities. However, with time and personal growth, her relationship with her son evolved into one of deep affection and friendship.

Now a committed mother to her 10-year-old son, Tiwa emphasizes the values she aims to instill in him, particularly regarding his treatment of women. Drawing from her own experiences in unhealthy relationships, she highlighted the significance of raising a respectful and compassionate individual.

“I always tell him, your mum suffered, make sure you treat any girl like a queen. It is very important for me to raise him as a good man. He is going to make mistakes, he is not perfect. But at the core of him, I want him to be kind,” she noted.

Tiwa Savage’s candid insights have struck a chord with many fans, prompting discussions about postpartum challenges, societal expectations of women, and the realities of balancing motherhood with a demanding career.